Wednesday, May 25, 2005

Being Dark !!

Browsing through a TOI article on indiatimes.com, I came across this article.
The aricle is about a girl who loses her confidence, a belief in herself 'coz she is dark.
This is a very nice written article, just go through it.

I think what matters most is not the color but the attitude!!

Yes, surely, the color is the eyecatcher and can be noticed in first shot, but after that its really how u carry urself is what counts.

Friday, May 20, 2005

Sun Signs... Give me a breakk yaar !!

"Hey Samy, whts ur B'date ?"
"its Aug. 15th"...me.
"August.. Hmm.....(thinking..) Ohhh.. that means u r a Leo !... So, u must be this.. that..blah blah.. (here one lists me all the characteristics of Leo...) and u know Sam, mera is se pehale kabhi kisi Leo se nahi jamaa... Leos are egoistic na !! "
"Give me a break yaar... C'mon how could u say that I too will be like that.. possess all the characteristics u listed... " and the discussion continues !!

In vain, I try to get people think beyond their astrological sense/knowledge to judge people as they come and not by their sun signs. But, some are so stubborn to change... if u do a particular thing or react in a paerticular way, " You are Leo na.. so u do/think like this!! " pat comes the reply.

Now, how could ones birth date could set all his characteritics/appearances/his attitude.. I m still wondering about this?
Do sun signs are really that significant in ones life ??

I even don't care about them, though I daily read what my sun sign says in a daily prediction in newspaper either in the mornig or before night. Before night too, yeah just to find out the accuracy of the predictions with my day ;)
I don't think/believe that all the people in the particular sign gonna have the same day, how could they ??? It depends on all the circumstances around them and their will power to take the decisions in a particular way.

We make our fortune and call it as fate...
One should really have the faith but should not be superstitious !!

We build our charater, our attitude by looking at the surroundings and its a very long process, definitely everybody has a different thinking power, has different reactions to a particular incident. If u see the world waering ur sunglasses (read sun singns), u gonna see all the world in the same color as ur sunglasses have.
"Abe dhakkan, chashmaa utaar.. duniya dekh... ;)) "

Anyways, Urmila/ Asha sings this in Rangeela...
"Laanat hai ye uspar.. duniya me jo rehkar...
duniyaa me jo jeene ke andaaz ko na jaane...
Mathe ya haathon me.. chaand ya taaron me ..
kismat ko dhoonde par khood me kya hai ya naa jaane....
Khood par hi hum ko yakeen ho.. to mushkil bhi raah aasan ho...
dono haathon me ye jahan ho...
Yaayi re.. yaayi re.. "

No Magic, no sun sign will ever help u in either in judging ppl around nor in fulfilling ur dreams. Just learn by ur experiences with life and live on ...!!

Its just my stand on the issue, ur opinions/suggestions are all welcome !!
Sorry, if hurt someones feeling/sentiments :(