!! Interpretations !!

The teacher just draws a circular shape on the blackboard. She turns back to the students. "So, children, look at the shape on the board and write down what u r thinkin this would be".
After the assignement dictated, most of the students write down what they thought of the shape. "Roll No. 13, tell me what u have wrote?" Teacher, as in her usual style of calling random numbers to answer so that everybody pays attention to the class. " Ma'm, I think its a football u want to draw there." came the answer from 13. She kept on calling the numbers and students replied with different answers hardly matching answers for the same question. Same shot back as the shape is of a Sun, Moon, ball, Earth, waterlemon, Bangle and what not? Too many interepretations of the same object.

This is the way our thought process is. Everybody think so differently than the other. Irrespective of being the same object, everybody's interpretation for the same varied a lot. Sometimes, we want to say one thing, the other person gets another thing and when it is been told to someone else, he/she interprets it in different way!! So, how should we strike a balance between all this? How come be sure to understand what the other person exactly want to convey? Question back asking "Is this what you mean?". 
Are there any better ways to get the clarifications for your interpretations? OR is it just mutual understanding between the two or amongst the group which will get what you meant to say !!

The human mind is so complex and thinks so differently and uniquely. Our though process is what constituets for our attitude, our character. Some ppl always think negatively some positively. If you do a favor to someone , he/she will think "Why the hell this chap helped me, must be having some bad intentions or does he want to be frendly with me?". Particularly, girls have these negative thinking a lot. If you offer her a seat in a busy city bus, she will sit first and keep on thinking of "Why he offered me a sit?" for the rest of the journey irrespective of whether the otehr person din't had any intentions of the same. Just a small example though.

Even I dunno, how u ppl gonna interpret this after reading this but lemme be sure of what I want to say, that everybody is so different and unique that everybodys thoughts and interpretation of the same thing could be different. If you are thinking that somebodys actions/talks hurt you, that person might have not intended the same. So, better be positive and try to interpret in some other way for the same. As they say, always " Try to be in the others Shoe first before any say/action" !!!

Cheers.....

Break Ups !!

aka KLPD ... U know what tht mean? If u r a girl, better not ask it then ;) (It means a heartBreak in a good lang.)

This is lifes biggest tragedy (or is it fate) happens with most of the ppl. Two ppl are committed, sees each other or even have plans to settle down with each other.
Enter third person, and all the dreams shattered. Ditch the first one and go with the better new one.

What would have been the feeling of that person?

What Kajol's would-be have thought when he saw her run away with SRK in train (DDLJ)
DCH has 3 such break ups. The first "Aaaakaash" screamer, then Subodh saw Saif taking away Sonali. Adn then Aamir runs away with Preity.
What these 3 ppl have gone thru? I think, going thru break ups is the most miserable thing in life.
What Sunil have gone thru when he saw Shilpa getting married to Akki and den not leaving him !! (Dhadkan)
Raj kapur's "Mera Naam Joker" shows his all heartberaks in the movie throught life. That's the biggest KLPD one can have.

One of my closest freind had been through this (Its a diff story that he recovered fast and got other). Both families had no objection abt their relationship, something went wrong at the last moment and the girl got married to other guy.

One of my other closest friend got a new(literaly, he had a lot before too) GF. She was committed to his friend, he came and now both are a couple. One of our common friend keep saying, "woh kisi aur ko chodd ke aayi hai, kya guarantee hai ki woh ise bhi nahi chodegi?". No answer to this Question.

There are too many nice and lovely ppl around here and in the course of life we keep meeting them, does that mean the previous committments go into air and u go ahead with new one.
Just a thought, nothing serious !! What u will do for urself If u find a better partner while having one already?
OR Have u been the victim of such KLPD?

Safar ...

zindagi ke safar me chaar pal ka saath tha...
yaad nahi ab, jahan tumse mila woh kaunsa mod tha !!

raahe badal gayi.. humsafar bhi naye mile..
tum jaisa koi nahi, jahan dil se dil mile...
umeed pe ye safar tayy karr raha hoon...
kahin kisi mod pe fir se wohi humsafar mile !!

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~ Samyak.