Life is ...

I wrote this..when I was in a boring training session...
left with the paper and pen... so khaali deemag ki upaj hai ye...
Sheeghra Kavita ise hi kehate hai shaayad [:P]
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When U were not there...
Life was so merrier.
I had my own thoughts ...
things were so finer !!

When u were not there....
I always wandered here and there ...
Had a good picture of my (tobe) Love,
in my mind and everywhere !!

Then u entered my life...
I never thought of having a girl like u ..
as my wife...
Dreams shattered and life become hell...
the only thing I realize is...
Now... Alls not well !!!

A Thought...

"The Grass on the otehr side of the lake always looks to be greener .. " goes the famous quote !!
Its true.. and practical.

The same happens with us continuously thorought our life. We always neglect what we have in our surroundings and always try to go to that other side of the lake, just to realise that what we had with us on the otehr side was far better than this. It happens.. but theres always a way to come back... !!

U sometime like the other world more than ur present surroundings.. U step into that and found all illusions... Too baaaddd to digest the fact after investing so much of a time and money to get to so far... but anyways.. welcome to the journey back home !!! Doesn't matter that we stepped into a wrong world which was not meant for us... but at least we learn few lessons of life the hard way.

Is something like this happened with u ???

Inspiration !!

I lost it... lost my inspiration...
Yes... thts what I was thinking abt lately !!
One needs an inspiration for everything they do. :))

C'mon... there needs an inspiration to update this blog too... and for quite some time the inspiration is not there !!
Inspiration.. that could be anything... absolutely !!
People around me inspires me..thats my inspiration...
For some... its the nature around .. ( and wow.. what a beautiful scene outside now a days as monsoon is here !! )

I lost my inspiration... and even tht loss inspires me to write something abt it .. ;))

Break up !!

Heres one article from TOI Blogs !!
Its a nice one brreak up... go thru it.. if have time !

http://o3.indiatimes.com/Forbidden

Why do ppl come so close to go away again ???
The question better left unanswered .. why say ??

Sometimes !!

Sometimes.. I think it was good to b away from u ...
at least u cared to ask me how i m doing !!!

Sometimes.. I regret coming too close to u...
now I fear of losing u !!

Sometimes... it was nice to hear u chatting all night long..
now U don't have time to talk to me !!

Sometimes.. it was worth waiting for an instant reply for a mail..
now we hardly mail each other :(

Sometimes... it was always ur smile tht made me forget all my worries..
Now u smile rarely dues to excessive loads !!

Sometimes... I think life was far better when u were too far away...
at least u cared to write me letters !!

Sometimes... jsut sometimes.. I think !!

bass yunhi.. kabhi kabhi mere dil me khayaal aata hai !! [:)))]

Luv ke Liye Saala.. kuch bhi karegaa !!

Y'day I was watching this new channel.. called Sabse Tej... Opps.. Aaj Tak !! [:P]
First news : A girl in Ahmedamad had a contract marriage for 2 years.
Reason : the girl is in love with her husband's younger brother, who is just 19. So, not matured in law's term !! And from the fear of she will get married to somebody else forcefully, she had this idea of contract marriage for 2 years with her Love's older brother. Nobody from Boy's family had an objection, and now they are married too !! the relationship they share is that of a brotehr and sister !!! Whewww.... Luv is in d air... Bollywood me bhi aisi koi script nahi hai aaj tak !!

2nd News : A Professor in Kolkata changed his gender to marry his love !! Can you believe this... he now wears a saree... does make up...and still continue the same profession. His love.. Sorry now Her love..[:P] is not at all aware of this and is now finding it awkward !! Theres a Bangla movie in making on the same true love story of this guy... I mean now gal [:P]
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Opps.. dammm... pyaar me log kya kya kar rahe hai... !!!
Have u been in love.... can u do something odd.. pathbreaking to get ur love of life ??

Suggest a Title..

Dukh iis baat ka nahi ke jiss sadak pae hum chalae uspae sirf kaante milae;
gham too iss baat ka hai ke kaantae hamarae apnon ne bichayae.

Dukh iis baat ka nahi ke kaantae hamarae pair mein chubhae;
gham too iis baat ka hai ke nishan hamarae dil pae ubharae.

Dukh iis baat ka nahi ke aasuu hamarae dil ne royae;
gham too iis baat ka hai ke wo boondae kisi nae bhi na dekhae.

Dukh iis baat ka nahi ke unhsae hamae baewafai mili;
gham too iis baat ka hai ke pahilae humae wafa kyu mili?

Dukh iis baat ka nahi ke hum hamaesha hee akaelae thae;
gham too iis baat ka hai ke ab tak hum kitnae anjaan thae!

C'mon its not by me... its by Rakesh, for a acquaintance!!!!
But its touching to me.. and very close to my heart !!!!

Heres what Puno has to say...

"Rulanne se pehle ek baar hasya toh hota

kasoor kya tha iss dil ko bataya toh hota

mili saja uss khata ki jo ki na hamnein

kash hamne tumse dil lagaya na hota"

waah waah..

I was wondering like this....

"Kyun aisa hota hai... ki HUM jise chaahte hai.. use kabhi paate nahi "
"woh pass reh ke bhi pass nahi hote.. aur jo door hai.. woh door hone ka ahsaas nahi hota..."
"Ummeed to har koi chaand ki rakhata hai...par"
"Kisiko Zameen to kisiko aasmaan nahi milataa ..."

Thnx Deeps for tht last line [:)]

Being Dark !!

Browsing through a TOI article on indiatimes.com, I came across this article.
The aricle is about a girl who loses her confidence, a belief in herself 'coz she is dark.
This is a very nice written article, just go through it.

I think what matters most is not the color but the attitude!!

Yes, surely, the color is the eyecatcher and can be noticed in first shot, but after that its really how u carry urself is what counts.

Sun Signs... Give me a breakk yaar !!

"Hey Samy, whts ur B'date ?"
"its Aug. 15th"...me.
"August.. Hmm.....(thinking..) Ohhh.. that means u r a Leo !... So, u must be this.. that..blah blah.. (here one lists me all the characteristics of Leo...) and u know Sam, mera is se pehale kabhi kisi Leo se nahi jamaa... Leos are egoistic na !! "
"Give me a break yaar... C'mon how could u say that I too will be like that.. possess all the characteristics u listed... " and the discussion continues !!

In vain, I try to get people think beyond their astrological sense/knowledge to judge people as they come and not by their sun signs. But, some are so stubborn to change... if u do a particular thing or react in a paerticular way, " You are Leo na.. so u do/think like this!! " pat comes the reply.

Now, how could ones birth date could set all his characteritics/appearances/his attitude.. I m still wondering about this?
Do sun signs are really that significant in ones life ??

I even don't care about them, though I daily read what my sun sign says in a daily prediction in newspaper either in the mornig or before night. Before night too, yeah just to find out the accuracy of the predictions with my day ;)
I don't think/believe that all the people in the particular sign gonna have the same day, how could they ??? It depends on all the circumstances around them and their will power to take the decisions in a particular way.

We make our fortune and call it as fate...
One should really have the faith but should not be superstitious !!

We build our charater, our attitude by looking at the surroundings and its a very long process, definitely everybody has a different thinking power, has different reactions to a particular incident. If u see the world waering ur sunglasses (read sun singns), u gonna see all the world in the same color as ur sunglasses have.
"Abe dhakkan, chashmaa utaar.. duniya dekh... ;)) "

Anyways, Urmila/ Asha sings this in Rangeela...
"Laanat hai ye uspar.. duniya me jo rehkar...
duniyaa me jo jeene ke andaaz ko na jaane...
Mathe ya haathon me.. chaand ya taaron me ..
kismat ko dhoonde par khood me kya hai ya naa jaane....
Khood par hi hum ko yakeen ho.. to mushkil bhi raah aasan ho...
dono haathon me ye jahan ho...
Yaayi re.. yaayi re.. "

No Magic, no sun sign will ever help u in either in judging ppl around nor in fulfilling ur dreams. Just learn by ur experiences with life and live on ...!!

Its just my stand on the issue, ur opinions/suggestions are all welcome !!
Sorry, if hurt someones feeling/sentiments :(