Wednesday, July 12, 2006

अति परिचयात अवद्न्या

अति परिचयात अवद्न्या, सन्तत गमनात अनादरॊ |
मलये भिल्ल पुरन्दरि, चन्दनतरु काश्ठिकामिव ||
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U r insulted more if somebody knows u too well.
If u go to someone's place too often, u lose the respect.
Like, on Malay Hills, where sandlewood is in abundon, Bhilla, the community there, use it for burning to cook their food. But, for us, sandlewood is so rare a thing and so valuable!!!



Sunday, May 07, 2006

Likes Dislikes...

2 truths about Girls:
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1. If a Girl likes a boy, no matter what he say/Do, they like whatever He say/Do.
"He is so cute, he did this/that" !!! Duffer girls !!

2.If a girl doesn't like a guy, no matter if you Say/Do the same, whatever he say/do irritates Her.
"Dont irritate me any further" !!! Again, Duffer Girls !!

~ LuvGuru [:D].

Monday, March 06, 2006

!! Taking for Granted !!

Soemtime, we take the ppl around us too much granted for anything. Whether its some favor or may be too much leg pulling or may be some other stuff.
I hate when ppl sometime take me for granted for everything. sometimes its ok... but ALL d time, it becomes so annoying x(.
But too much of everything is bad, bad for all the habits, bad for the ppl involved, bad for the relations too. Dunno where to draw the exact lines but still, is it ok to take pals around us granted for anything?

LIFE, everybody around us also take the life for granted. Dunno why, we see the ppl around us getting killed in accidents, terrorist attacks or some natural calamities. But, we hardly take care of our own life thinking that this is not gonna happen with me. Why not? I duuno. Even I myself take my life for granted [:(] need to change the habit !! [:)]

So, whats that u take for granted??

Tuesday, February 28, 2006

Moved to....

Hi dear my BlogReaders..
if u r hitting in here finding no updates... I am sorrz for the incovinience ((
I have just created a new blog and is updating that quite regularly !!
So, please use the this link to go to new blog ))
There are lotsa pending things to update in here.... but sometime later ))
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Luv Always,
° S.

Thursday, February 16, 2006

I hate...

The work ahead seems to be so simple that
I just hate to do it.. am I supposed to do
all the easy work in d world??
Lets do it at leisure...  b-) b-)

This is so difficult... and hard to understand,
I can't stand it anymore...
mere chote se deemag pe main itana kyun zoor doonn..
all d tough tasks are assigned to me... I hate it :((
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Thts the way sometime I think .. do u too??

Monday, February 06, 2006

Why Do we... ?


Why do we chase for those who care a damm about u...
and leave behind all those who can give a life for us :)))

May be thts the way L.I.F.E. is!!!
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Bewafaa :

kabhi unase humen na aaya call na koi sms..
aise kanjoosh humne dost paaye hai !!

jahan humne jaan se jaan, lagaayi...
wahin pe woh humen.. jaam ke bharose chod gaye hai !!

aaj to arthi se bhi uthh jaaye hum..
bewafaai ka sahi.. woh tohafaa to laaye hai !!

aise hi sooz gaya kisi se baat kar raha tha tab.. so leekh daala [;)]

Thursday, February 02, 2006

Mind Asks God : IntentBlog

Here is this very very nice and deep article I found on Intentblog...

Go and have a read.. its worth it !!!

Read more at www.intentblog.com/arch...

Lemme know how u liked the article??

Wednesday, January 18, 2006

!! Interpretations !!

The teacher just draws a circular shape on the blackboard. She turns back to the students. "So, children, look at the shape on the board and write down what u r thinkin this would be".
After the assignement dictated, most of the students write down what they thought of the shape. "Roll No. 13, tell me what u have wrote?" Teacher, as in her usual style of calling random numbers to answer so that everybody pays attention to the class. " Ma'm, I think its a football u want to draw there." came the answer from 13. She kept on calling the numbers and students replied with different answers hardly matching answers for the same question. Same shot back as the shape is of a Sun, Moon, ball, Earth, waterlemon, Bangle and what not? Too many interepretations of the same object.

This is the way our thought process is. Everybody think so differently than the other. Irrespective of being the same object, everybody's interpretation for the same varied a lot. Sometimes, we want to say one thing, the other person gets another thing and when it is been told to someone else, he/she interprets it in different way!! So, how should we strike a balance between all this? How come be sure to understand what the other person exactly want to convey? Question back asking "Is this what you mean?". 
Are there any better ways to get the clarifications for your interpretations? OR is it just mutual understanding between the two or amongst the group which will get what you meant to say !!

The human mind is so complex and thinks so differently and uniquely. Our though process is what constituets for our attitude, our character. Some ppl always think negatively some positively. If you do a favor to someone , he/she will think "Why the hell this chap helped me, must be having some bad intentions or does he want to be frendly with me?". Particularly, girls have these negative thinking a lot. If you offer her a seat in a busy city bus, she will sit first and keep on thinking of "Why he offered me a sit?" for the rest of the journey irrespective of whether the otehr person din't had any intentions of the same. Just a small example though.

Even I dunno, how u ppl gonna interpret this after reading this but lemme be sure of what I want to say, that everybody is so different and unique that everybodys thoughts and interpretation of the same thing could be different. If you are thinking that somebodys actions/talks hurt you, that person might have not intended the same. So, better be positive and try to interpret in some other way for the same. As they say, always " Try to be in the others Shoe first before any say/action" !!!

Cheers.....


Friday, January 13, 2006

Break Ups !!

aka KLPD ... U know what tht mean? If u r a girl, better not ask it then ;) (It means a heartBreak in a good lang.)

This is lifes biggest tragedy (or is it fate) happens with most of the ppl. Two ppl are committed, sees each other or even have plans to settle down with each other.
Enter third person, and all the dreams shattered. Ditch the first one and go with the better new one.

What would have been the feeling of that person?

What Kajol's would-be have thought when he saw her run away with SRK in train (DDLJ)
DCH has 3 such break ups. The first "Aaaakaash" screamer, then Subodh saw Saif taking away Sonali. Adn then Aamir runs away with Preity.
What these 3 ppl have gone thru? I think, going thru break ups is the most miserable thing in life.
What Sunil have gone thru when he saw Shilpa getting married to Akki and den not leaving him !! (Dhadkan)
Raj kapur's "Mera Naam Joker" shows his all heartberaks in the movie throught life. That's the biggest KLPD one can have.

One of my closest freind had been through this (Its a diff story that he recovered fast and got other). Both families had no objection abt their relationship, something went wrong at the last moment and the girl got married to other guy.

One of my other closest friend got a new(literaly, he had a lot before too) GF. She was committed to his friend, he came and now both are a couple. One of our common friend keep saying, "woh kisi aur ko chodd ke aayi hai, kya guarantee hai ki woh ise bhi nahi chodegi?". No answer to this Question.

There are too many nice and lovely ppl around here and in the course of life we keep meeting them, does that mean the previous committments go into air and u go ahead with new one.
Just a thought, nothing serious !! What u will do for urself If u find a better partner while having one already?
OR Have u been the victim of such KLPD?

Monday, January 09, 2006

Safar ...

zindagi ke safar me chaar pal ka saath tha...
yaad nahi ab, jahan tumse mila woh kaunsa mod tha !!

raahe badal gayi.. humsafar bhi naye mile..
tum jaisa koi nahi, jahan dil se dil mile...
umeed pe ye safar tayy karr raha hoon...
kahin kisi mod pe fir se wohi humsafar mile !!

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~ Samyak.

Thursday, December 22, 2005

corrupt politicians...!!

Two sting operations... many MPs cought lively... and even broadcasted on TV !!
The LS is right in taking action against them... and cancel their membership from parliament.
Ofc.. they are right, I mean.. they can be corrupt, can take bribes and even loot the netizens, can go away with our hardearned money which we pay by our taxes, But but but.. they have no right to cast themseves in this corruption episode. Somebody may come out with using "body-double" argument as it happens with the films. But.. gimme a break...don't we know, how loyal our politicians are? OR are we dumb enough to see the nicely constructed bunglows, increasing income and levish cars/bikes, household properties of these ppl? May be we are !!
Why so hulla gulla over this cought-in-front-of-camera episode, we all know that they are corrupt and all these malpractices happen in India. If you want to punish these people, set some bechmarks, do something to change their state of mind that says "politicians are not punished" ever !!
Anyways... nothing much will happen... in a month or two.. everything will settle down.. and these mental politicians will be back to normal BUSINESS !!
!!  Corruption ki jayy ho !!

Wednesday, December 21, 2005

I'm not sad !!

to kya hua ki tumne mujhe bhoola diya...
jitane bane the rishtey sabko tod diya...
that doesn't mean I'm sad...

to kya hua ki tumhe yaad kiye bina so nahi paate...
raat ko ghanto tak chaand me tumhaara cheharaa dhoondate...
that doesn't mean I'm sad...

to kya hua ki tumhe humaara saath manjoor nahi...
par yaad to aapki aati rahegi sadaa yunhi..
that doesn't mean I'm sad...

I'm not sad.. kyunki bhale hi saath umrabhar ka na tha...
but kuch dino ke liye hi sahi life me josh to aa gaya tha...
ho na paaye aapke acche dost to kya...
aapke saath kuch waqt hi sahi... life me ekdam best tha !!!

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Hey ppl.. I wrote these senti senti poems doesnm't mean that I m in love... or somebody ditched me... or I became devdaas...lab lah lab lah...
I m very well OK.. and doing good.. and 'happy to be single' kinda person !!
Don't get a wrong impression of me...

Thanks ....

Sunday, December 11, 2005

Expectations...

Expectations is the Root Cause of all WORRIES !!
Don't Expect (anything from anyone)... and be Happy !! [:)]

Wednesday, November 30, 2005

Know UR Potential !!

When I was a child (must be 7-8 years old), we used to have hens at our house.
I used to buy a peacock's eggs and mix it up with our hens egss while breeding !!
The result is, when the chicks hatch from their shells, u have one distinct chick which is more beautiful and colorful than others. Having a slightly longer tail and mostly so beautiful, its always is a center of attraction to watch out for.

This so happens that, this peacock chick gets mixed with normal chicks and never thinks of flying away. It stays there with them... eats what they are eating and do the things what it sees around. It never kinda knew its own potential because its not aware of that.

The point I want to make here is... its sometimes the same kinda situation we face in our lives. We keep on doing things and involve ourselves in the things which we are not meant for. We normally follow the path what our surrounding people are doing .. it may be colleugues or frends or jsut family. Though we end up doing those things, we can never enjoy the true satisfaction at the end of the day.

Instead, in a way, you urself should try to find out ur own potential, ur plus points, ur strengths and then figure out the goal in the life, the things tht u would love to achieve in future !! You may be wrong sometimes, but that the way lifes teaches u. anyway, its easier said than done... but on the other line, nothings impossible, wht say ??

Moral of the post : Unleash ur potential and reach for the skies !! All d Best !!!

(I am very bad in penning down my ideas.. so bear with this !! )

Friday, November 18, 2005

When Was The Last Time...

When Was The Last Time...
You seen the Sun rising
from behind the mountains and
spreading its golden sunshine
on all the creatures on earth...

When Was The Last Time...
You went onto the rooftop in the night...
watched the different patterns of stars
and tried seeing the face of ur love
in the round and beautiful shape of the moon...

When Was The Last Time...
You threw urself in the pouring rain
and danced like no ones watching...
drenched like u are bathing...
liked the dark clouds and its
1000 watt thundering smile...

When Was The Last Time...
You enjoyed the beauty of nature around ??
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Lifes become too mechanical...
wake up late... and u miss the sunrise..
spend the time watchin Idiot Box while its night...
and lock urself inside while its raining...
Mann.... Come out of ur shileds..
start life living !!






Tuesday, November 08, 2005

A Shining Star !!!

There are so many stars in the sky

but only some are radiant enough to

catch your attention. Among those

that you chose to ignore is that one

star which is willing to continue

shining for you, even if your glance

remains elsewhere.


Loved this quote... This nice quote was FWD.ed by Rags ... !!!

Friday, October 28, 2005

Haal-E-Dil...

Chal rahi hai... training boring...
aur main khoya hua hoon..
Hazaaron khayaal hai deemag me...
par saare hai tumhaare.. kya kahoon ??

Pata nahi yaar... kab tak ye log...
yunhi aise pakaate rahenge...
par menu bhi koi fark nahi paindaa...
kyunki tumhaare khayaal to aate rahenge !!

Baitha hua hoon..AC conf. room me...
par ghoom bhi raha hoon.. baagon me .. saath tumhaare....
soch raha hoon... jald hi kuch karanaa padegaa..
karane poore ye saare khwaab humaare !!

wah wah.. wah wah !! [:P][:P]

Koi TUMse Seekhe !!

Wahi Training me ye bhi maine leekh diya...
bolo to sahi .. kaisa hai ??

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Meethi meethi baate karanaa...
Koi TUMse seekhe !!
Baato baaton me dil churanaa ...
Koi TUMse seekhe !!
Dil se Dil ke jodanaa..
Koi TUMse seekhe !!
Dil ki khwaahishon ko jaganaa..
Koi TUMse seekhe !!

Fir achaanak door jaana..
Koi TUMse seekhe !!
Humen poora bhoola dena..(ignore karanaa)
Koi TUMse seekhe !!
Hasate hue..bewafaai karana...
Koi TUMse seekhe !!
Dard ki gehraaiyon me akele chodd dena..
Koi TUMse seekhe !!
Pyaar me dil todna...
Koi TUMse seekhe !!

Haaye... Ye Dard-E-Mohabbat...
In sabko bhulaake... fir bhi TUMse pyaar karanaa..
Koi HUMse seekhe !! [8)]

Life is ...

I wrote this..when I was in a boring training session...
left with the paper and pen... so khaali deemag ki upaj hai ye...
Sheeghra Kavita ise hi kehate hai shaayad [:P]
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When U were not there...
Life was so merrier.
I had my own thoughts ...
things were so finer !!

When u were not there....
I always wandered here and there ...
Had a good picture of my (tobe) Love,
in my mind and everywhere !!

Then u entered my life...
I never thought of having a girl like u ..
as my wife...
Dreams shattered and life become hell...
the only thing I realize is...
Now... Alls not well !!!

Wednesday, October 26, 2005

A Thought...

"The Grass on the otehr side of the lake always looks to be greener .. " goes the famous quote !!
Its true.. and practical.

The same happens with us continuously thorought our life. We always neglect what we have in our surroundings and always try to go to that other side of the lake, just to realise that what we had with us on the otehr side was far better than this. It happens.. but theres always a way to come back... !!

U sometime like the other world more than ur present surroundings.. U step into that and found all illusions... Too baaaddd to digest the fact after investing so much of a time and money to get to so far... but anyways.. welcome to the journey back home !!! Doesn't matter that we stepped into a wrong world which was not meant for us... but at least we learn few lessons of life the hard way.

Is something like this happened with u ???